First let me say I admire your honesty, your transparency, and your willingness to place yourself in a position of vulnerability. That all takes courage and speaks well of your character. I for one (and I'm sure others) have watched while you've learned and grown and then shared that learning with others, helping them to see the truth as well. While learning what you have learned can be somewhat traumatizing to the psyche (I know it was for me), what can be greater than this search for the truth, regardless of the pain and suffering involved, and passing on what you have learned to others. That, to me, is a noble endeavor, worthy of what you have endured.
Furthermore, in so far as being right or wrong, it's very much a matter of perspective with regards to investing one's money. Let's take a snapshot in time from January 1st, 2000 until yesterday or a period of roughly 20 years. From that day to yesterday, September 24, 2020, the Dow Jones Industrial Average increased from 10,729 to 26,815, an increase of 2.50X. The S&P 500 increased from 1,426 to 3,247, an increase of 2.28X. The Nasdaq increased from 4,186 to 10,672, an increase of 2.55X. Yet in the same time frame, gold increased from 282 to 1,964, an increase of 6.96X while silver increased from 5.3 to 22.2, an increase of 4.2X.
So gold, admittedly a crappy investment (but not a crappy insurance policy) because of no capital growth, no dividends, and no interest, handily outperformed each major stock index in that time frame, more than doubling in comparison. So were you right or were your family members right?;-)
In so far as spiritual teachers, I recall one who said:
"I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world."
He also said (foretelling what was to come in this time of strife):
"They will be divided, father against son and son against father, mother against daughter and daughter against mother, mother-in-law against daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law."
And he said:
“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”
I've studied many great spiritual teachers and I've never found words more powerful or truthful than his. For me, when you know where you've come from, who you are, and where you are going, there is a peace that comes upon you that this world cannot shake.
I think you are very wise and humble to seek out the help you did. And I hope that you will continue to learn and grow in that realm of understanding as you have in others.